Dover, NH – Romeo Alfred Lupi, 98, of Dover, NH, formerly Medford, and Haverhill passed away Thursday, January 3 at his residence. Born in Haverhill, he was the son of the late, Michael and Almerinda (Caputi) Lupi. Raised in Haverhill, he was a graduate of Haverhill High School, Class of 1939. A Veteran of WWII, he proudly served his country in the U.S. Army and was honorably discharged after four years. He met his wife Emilia (Baratta) while serving in Italy during the war. Coming from a family of musicians, he played drums for the Army Band. Upon his return home he was employed by the U. S. Postal Service. He then went to work at the Charlestown Navy yard until it closed and would retire from the Air Force working at Hanscom Air Force Base. Growing up during the Big Band era, he fell in love with the drums. He became a gifted musician and professional drummer, working throughout greater Boston. He had steady gigs at the Wonderland Ballroom in Revere and the State Ballroom in Boston. He was a well sought after drummer and played countless weddings throughout his 75 year career. He was a member of the Boston Musicians Union. A devoted husband, father, grandfather and greatgrandfather, he was the Widower of Emilia (Baratta) Lupi. He is survived by a son; Anthony J. Lupi and his wife, Kathleen E. (Kenny) Lupi, of Dover, NH, a daughter; Cynthia R. Kovalcik and her husband James, of Albuquerque, NM, cherished grandchildren; Alison Marcotte and Megan Bell, Sara, Sophia, and Anthony Lupi, greatgrandchildren; Gavin and Rhys Marcotte and Emilia Bell and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brothers; Edolo, Remo, Gino, Ernest and a sister, Alda Salafia.


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You always were and always will be the best man I have ever known. You raised me from 6 months old up, you did not have to, you hose too. That is the kind of man you were. I will take every memory, every lesson, every bit of love that I learned from you daddy and always make you proud. I will also remember that it is okay to cry, I promise. I love you daddy, forever in my heart.
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