HAVERHILL – It is with tremendous sadness that we mourn the passing of Nancy (Helen) Neville Carlson who died February 10th, 2025 in Haverhill MA.
Nan, as she was affectionately known, was a ray of sunshine for everyone who met her. Her joy and gentleness were gifts bestowed on us all. She is survived by her two children Alexandra and Nicholas Carlson and their respective partners Tyler and Ryan, by her three brothers William, Richard and James Neville, their wives Betsy, Madeline, and Suzanne, 5 nephews, 1 niece, Nancy’s partner Randy Herman and her former husband Mark Carlson.
Nancy was a true caregiver and dedicated healer who worked as a Nurse and Nursing Coach for more than 40 years and was affiliated with, among others, Massachusetts General Hospital, Children’s Hospital, and the Traveling Nurses Association. Not satisfied with the results of traditional medicine, she went on to become a Reiki Master, certified Massage Therapist, Yoga Instructor and Ayruveda devotee. So many were helped through her service and knowledge which were so kindly delivered.
Raised in Guilderland, NY, Nancy went to Boston to earn her degree at Boston University in nursing. She lived and raised her family in Reading, MA and subsequently lived in Salem, Arlington, and finally settling in Amesbury, MA. She had an adventurous and spiritual bent, traveling to India twice, Turkey, Europe, Costa Rica, and across the US. Nan had a wonderful sense of humor, loved gardening, decorating her homes, cooking for family and friends, writing and reading poetry. At 71 she left us too soon, but faced her own healthcare challenges with courage and fortitude. We will all miss her dearly.
ARRANGEMENTS: As per her request she will be cremated with a celebration of life memorial service taking place in the near future. For further information about this please contact Nick Carlson, nicholascarlson@mac.com. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Our Neighbors Table at www.ourneighborstable.org/donate. Please visit www.comeaufuneral.com or Comeau Funeral Home on Facebook.
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Megan says
February 12, 2025 at 9:56 pmSending much love to the family. I was blessed to have been trained as a nurse coach by Nancy and because of her I have been able to help my patients in a much deeper way. I am so happy that our paths were brought together
Karin Johnston says
February 12, 2025 at 10:02 pmBeautiful Nan. We had a rather short and deeply wonderful friendship and shared many profound and lighthearted conversations about our healing work and spiritual lives. I moved to Santa Fe, NM shortly after Nan met Randy. I loved that she was so excited about this new love. I gifted Nan with my beautiful wooden Ganesha statue who was a favorite beloved deity for her. Nan will always have a place in my heart and I have deep gratitude that I got to share some time with her on our journeys. Sending love and prayers to her beloved family and friends. ♥️🙏🏼♥️
Michael Cunningham says
February 13, 2025 at 12:46 amI met Nancy when we did an Ayurveda class in New York City (through Kripalu) together. She was a lovely person, always positive and kind. I am so sorry to hear about her passing.
Lorraine Z Salter says
February 13, 2025 at 12:44 pmI am saddened to learn of Nancy’s passing. Thank you Nicholas, for reaching out via email to share this difficult news about your Mom. I am sending heartfelt condolences to you, your sister, Alex, and Nancy’s partner, Randy, plus ALL of Nancy’s family and close friends. The words and thoughts shared completely resonate with my feelings and memories of Nancy when I knew her back in Reading. Nancy was a kind soul and great support for me back in 2007 when I dealt with some health issues myself. I reflect on those times often and remember Nancy as a very calming and gifted woman who could bring a peaceful & reassuring feeling to anyone in need. Rest in Peace Nancy, and know that your spirit and the love that you so easily shared throughout your life will forever be held in many, many hearts.
Maureen Delaney says
February 16, 2025 at 12:23 amI am deeply saddened by the news of Nancy’s passing… I remember her warmth , her welcoming smile and gentle, caring nature…I have always thought of her fondly when I recall moments together while learning and growing in the early years of the integrative nurse coach program in NYC and in MA. She was a true light worker and healer! My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Rest in peace Nancy!